Why do girls do this?

November 7, 2009 @ 11:15 am by Thunder Of Zeus
I make a point to stay friends with the girls that I was in a relationship with, because there is no reason to have any sort of awkward situations that result from it.
For some reason, most girls seem to have some kind of problem with this, or something. I only have one ex that there is no tension with, and we are very good friends.
Why do they have to make up BS reasons to hold hatred and grudges against me and my friends?
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  1. Girls do it because they have to. They are manipulative because they have to be. Men can beat **** up to get their way, women can't (at least the the same extent). Its impossibly to tell what a woman's motives are half the time, and with good reason. We intimidate women, so instead of confronting us directly they go through odd methods to effect us. A silent treatment or hurtful words or actions are the equivalent of her 'falling down the stairs.' Women can be passive aggressive creatures when they want to be, and can really do a ton of mental damage to a man. Posted by CRASHiC at November 9, 2009 - 6:30pm | Reply to this
  2. Sinz has the best idea. People often blow things out of proportion without giving it a second or third thought. And if diplomacy fails, POW RIGHT IN THE KISSER POW RIGHT IN THE KISSER POW RIGHT IN THE KISSER give her the space she claims to crave for a while and then see what you should do. Posted by Mardyke at November 9, 2009 - 6:21pm | Reply to this
  3. Everyones made a good point in this, lol.

    Its pretty much a combination of eveything.

    I mean, tbh, I don't care much to stay friends afterwards, but that could be because I've never really had peaceful breakup. I guess is depends on the seriousness of the relationship.

    But I mean, somethings just heal with time, whatever it is that needs healing. I've recently become friends again with the girl I had the worst breakup with, after two years, so idk. Posted by JustKindaBoredUKno at November 9, 2009 - 2:05pm | Reply to this
  4. To be blunt, stop caring about what girls think. Move on with your life. Posted by Turbo Ether at November 9, 2009 - 5:11am | Reply to this
  5. Why do you feel the need to "make it a point to stay friends". If you're still friends after a relationship, great. If not, so what? Friendship is a two way street, you can't force it with someone who doesn't want it.

    The situation with the girl reacting unreasonably to the breakup, sure confront it if you'd like to, but if afterward she still doesn't want to be friends, that's just how it is. Posted by altairian at November 9, 2009 - 4:38am | Reply to this
  6. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sinz View Post
    The reason I said confront her is because you guys didn't even get very far into the relationship. She is overdoing this completely. Most likely what she is doing is following what she has seen her friends do. Because, maybe she hasn't had experience with break ups. So, she saw that her friend completely cut all ties with him, and she did the same. However, ti wasn't even a relationship. Really, a week? I call that just hanging out for a while. You say more than a month? Yeah, I say that is a relationship. You are confiding in each other. Yet, you guys didn't reach this. Just confront her. Explain how you feel.
    I just might.





    ..maybe. Posted by Thunder Of Zeus at November 9, 2009 - 4:05am | Reply to this
  7. The reason I said confront her is because you guys didn't even get very far into the relationship. She is overdoing this completely. Most likely what she is doing is following what she has seen her friends do. Because, maybe she hasn't had experience with break ups. So, she saw that her friend completely cut all ties with him, and she did the same. However, ti wasn't even a relationship. Really, a week? I call that just hanging out for a while. You say more than a month? Yeah, I say that is a relationship. You are confiding in each other. Yet, you guys didn't reach this. Just confront her. Explain how you feel. Posted by Sinz at November 9, 2009 - 2:41am | Reply to this
  8. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sinz View Post
    Confront her.
    This is the best option where you stand now.

    As for girls doing this, I've never understood why. I've had a boyfriend whom thought I'd do the same thing, and I just told him I thought it was silly to get that mad about breaking up. Life is life, it was bound to happen sometime.

    If she doesn't want to talk to you at all, then confront her. If she doesn't give you a good reason for the reasons as to why she broke up with you, leave her be. Posted by Yink at November 8, 2009 - 6:55pm | Reply to this
  9. If all else fails, hit her POW RIGHT IN THE KISSER, POW RIGHT IN THE KISSER, POW RIGHT IN THE KISSER. Posted by Gf2tw at November 8, 2009 - 6:47pm | Reply to this
  10. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sinz View Post
    Confront her.
    Most definitely. If she's blocking you and stuff, than if you confront her it really can't get any worse. You might as well try. Posted by Vrael at November 8, 2009 - 6:36pm | Reply to this