Takumaru
Smash Lord
Dear Sonic the hedgedawg,
lol @ spilling chai tea. I hope other things work out better for you.
Your Friend,
Takumaru
lol @ spilling chai tea. I hope other things work out better for you.
Your Friend,
Takumaru
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LGBT Smashers
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Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
wow! I get to be patronized in epistolary form.
sweet!
sweet!
JigglyZelda003
Smash Hero
lol @ Sonic
Sanu
Smash Champion
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Oh wow! I had no idea another thread was made... and here I just made a group to compensate for the last one we lost! Hello everyone! Yay for gay~ ;D I'd so love to read through the whole thread but I really don't think I'll ever find the time, =P. Guess I'll start from here!
So yeah, anything change much? Still gay everyone? Yippee! Same here ;P
As for the gay smashers group, you can join through here ^^: http://www.smashboards.com/group.php?groupid=330. You can talk about anything there, even off topic stuff *nodnods*.
Wells, until the next time I check this thread
So yeah, anything change much? Still gay everyone? Yippee! Same here ;P
As for the gay smashers group, you can join through here ^^: http://www.smashboards.com/group.php?groupid=330. You can talk about anything there, even off topic stuff *nodnods*.
Wells, until the next time I check this thread
deepseadiva
Bodybuilding Magical Girl
That must SUCK. I'm sorry Heartless...Hi guys...sorry I haven't been here in forever...real life stuff keeping me down...and I managed to lose my boyfriend...to a girl...I really miss him.
He'll come around...?
BE ****ED YOUR NUMBERS! AND **** YOU! I AM CYRANO DE BERGERAC!
Heh, I got the lead in my school play it seems. We're doing Moon Over Buffalo this year, and I will be playing George - this hauty actor guy, and one of the scenes we do in the play is Cyrano de Bergerac.
Edit: Wha...? D-word is blocked? REALLY?
Heartless Prince Of Light
Smash Apprentice
Heh, he did...he came over to my bed when I was asleep and kissed me, and the funny part is that I have a cold...
he says Hi.
*pops in*
Cyrano was one of my all time favorite plays, when I played the role it was one of the most enjoyable experiences in all my life.
For I still have my white plume.
Cyrano was one of my all time favorite plays, when I played the role it was one of the most enjoyable experiences in all my life.
For I still have my white plume.
xenialshadow
Smash Cadet
what d'you mean clique-ish? everyone here is mostly gay if that's what you mean =/
bored
Smash Ace
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Oh, its not only this thread. Smashboards has (since I've been there) always been like that.
The Executive
Smash Lord
Mostly, save the occasional "breeders" who pop in (hi there, I'm a breeder. [furtive whisper]I breed.[/furtive whisper]).
Seriously though, that is an awesome term. Sure beats the hell out of a bland, loaded term like "straight".
Daysoo
Smash Ace
I'm reasonably good at Brawl (and many other games), but I'm proportionately as bad at meeting guys.
I think that part of it is that I don't really fit any of the usual stereotypes.
I'm not the out-and-proud type, either.
The biggest 'tell' I have is probably my Gravitation messenger bag, which I don't even carry with me all the time.
I'm not interested in meeting guys in a bar or club, either.
I've been kind of down about all this lately, so I figured I'd ask my peers for advice...
So... Any ideas? n.n;
I think that part of it is that I don't really fit any of the usual stereotypes.
I'm not the out-and-proud type, either.
The biggest 'tell' I have is probably my Gravitation messenger bag, which I don't even carry with me all the time.
I'm not interested in meeting guys in a bar or club, either.
I've been kind of down about all this lately, so I figured I'd ask my peers for advice...
So... Any ideas? n.n;
JigglyZelda003
Smash Hero
sorry i've got no help for you Desu. you have to have serious gaydar to pick me out lol.
Heartless Prince Of Light
Smash Apprentice
Hm...well, it may not be as helpful, but...yeah.
1.Try to be out and proud, as far as I know, most gay/bi guys that I know LOVE the out and proud type, they're like: "I wouldn't date a gay guy for the life of me, although if they were gay and you weren't too fancy about it, that may be alright!". A-anyways, it just means this: BE YOURSELF!
2.Don't be afraid to tell someone they're hot, meet a random stranger and ask them out for coffee! Haha, not too useful, but...
3.Never stop loving ANYBODY! Ignore any flaws they have and...well...LOVE! don't eve close your heart...don't be an Idiot like I was and close your heart.
and that's about it...
NOTE TO YOU ALL!
If you EVER close your hearts or lose your way, count on me to help you...I've been there so many times, and I don't wish it to happen to any of you, you all know that you have a friend in me, breeder or not.And if you don't want help, then it's up to you.
I LOVE YOU ALL!
Also, on a more lighter note...my boyfriend keeps telling me that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me...and that makes me feel like...it's indescribable...but I think that for the first time in 7 years...I've been TRULY happy...maybe...do you think it's...meant to be?
Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
wow. you are me
anyway. yeah. I look, that's how I've found a couple guys. A straight guy won't read anything into it, a gay guy might. Then just have some subtle tells. Most gays have been able to pick me out fairly well. Straight guys might think I'm quirky, but don't jump to gay. Iunno, just kinda be out there a bit. it doesn't take much, and I'm the biggect hypocrite ever for saying this but: "nothing ventured, nothing gained."
now don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you to become flamboyantly gay. that's wrong, becuase it's not you. Just be yourself and let them like you for that. you DO need to either be looking for interest from others or you need to be gay enough to allow yourself to be figured out by them and subsequently approached.
yeah. I do the whole ay bar scene for fun only. I'm afraid of the types I might pick up there.
it's okay if you are too nervous to be outgoing about the whole thing. you don't have to throw yourself naked an unprotected into the world of relationships. you just need to make a little effort. I, for one, am just letting the other party see that I probably have some interest in him. Right now he has a "maybe boyfriend, maybe not" so I'm letting him decide exactly what the other guy is to him before I move in. I'm not a homewrecker after all. and, even when I DO move in. it'll more be me dropping little hints and hoping he can take the bait.
dawgbowl
Smash Ace
experiment, it doesn't mean you have to go through or commit to anything but if you are feeling that way it couldn't hurt to give change a try even if it is something slight. Don't change who you are though, that'd only make things worse I feel.
I dunno I am sort of in the same boat and though sometimes I feel bad that I dont have/am pursuing a relationship but with school/work/parties with friends I rarely have time to think about it XD I figure I want to get through college at least before I commit to anything, well that is what i'm thinking now anyways.
xenialshadow
Smash Cadet
Everyone seems to have some advice for you, Desu, and it's all really good advice! Of course you should be yourself, but you also shouldn't restrain yourself. If you feel like just sayin' "That guy's hot" or whatever, then just go for it no matter who you're around. It doesn't help just ACTING like yourself but you should just let go and BE yourself (makes no sense...but whatevs)Desu said:
I dunno about randomly going up to a guy and just saying you're hot though 'cause that's kinda...pervy? I dunno. I usually just find it that when they start off like that that they just want sex. But you if have amazing gaydar and can tell that a guy is gay, then totally play the flirting game whether it be at the mall, starbucks, or school. It doesn't hurt to just talk to a guy casually even if you don't now him.
Or at smash tourneys? That'd give you something in common with the guy, and then you can just laugh after beating him in a match... Though i've yet to meet another gay smasher at a tourney =[
Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
I wouldn't say in front of "anyone". Even after you are completely comfortable with yourself, there are plenty who aren't comfortable with it. so out of courtasy I wouldn't be such a lustful perv (walking up to a stranger and saying "you're hot" comes off as creepy no matter the sexes involved with or without people around.)
you just gotta get lucky to find the right one. Either that or use dating sites, or go shopping for one :D
you just gotta get lucky to find the right one.
Either that or use dating sites, or go shopping for one :D
deepseadiva
Bodybuilding Magical Girl
So my stupid emo/jock brother just told me he might be bi.
No...
No...
The Executive
Smash Lord
How does that work, exactly?
Are you afraid of him stealing your gay thunder? I have a gay brother. =/So my stupid emo/jock brother just told me he might be bi.
deepseadiva
Bodybuilding Magical Girl
It doesn't.
Yes, partly. I've always counted on my brother on being the "straight" one, the one to get married, and have kids, and stuff - the one my father could always "fall back" on.
I mean I'll support him and everything but, ugh...
Either way I'm hoping it's just a weird phase. Everyone is still waiting for him to get out of this emo stuff (emo hair, black nail polish, mascara occasionally).
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Seconded. I was under the impression that emo kids were allergic to sports.
EDIT: Whoa, I'm slow.
Daysoo
Smash Ace
Thanks for the advice, guys.
It's gonna be hard to actually follow through on it, though. X_x;
It's gonna be hard to actually follow through on it, though. X_x;
Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
come on... be a good gay, support your fellow gays
JigglyZelda003
Smash Hero
yeah all he needs is to find that one girl who likes "toys" and has a masculine flair to her, then hes got everything he needs to be Bi/straight lol
Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
deepseadiva
Bodybuilding Magical Girl
JigglyZelda003
Smash Hero
lol i hope i don't get in trouple for that statement lol. but it would make him still be straight, kinda, right?
on the emo/jock thing idk. thats like trying to wear a new dress to a rugby meet.
on the emo/jock thing idk. thats like trying to wear a new dress to a rugby meet.
Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
emo boys don't wear dresses O.o
Mikey Lenetia
Smash Champion
I'd be careful with how you guys say things like that. It isn't just homosexuals that deal with discrimination, bisexuals do, too. Whether or not your brother is going through a 'phase' or actually may be, Meno, I say support him like a loving sibling would.
Being anything but straight isn't exactly the easiest thing... trust me, I know. But it gets a lot easier once you just accept it and move on. 'Gays supporting gays' just doesn't sound right to me. I prefer to think of it as people supporting people for being true to who they are.
As for a type of one... I never know what I'm viewed as. Some people can tell right away. Others can't, and that goes both for those that are GLBT and for those that are straight, as far as I know. *shrug* I've also had one of the hardest times finding a guy... Most times I think I found someone I can really let into my life and who I am, I get so hurt I don't know what to do. -_-
Being anything but straight isn't exactly the easiest thing... trust me, I know. But it gets a lot easier once you just accept it and move on. 'Gays supporting gays' just doesn't sound right to me. I prefer to think of it as people supporting people for being true to who they are.
As for a type of one... I never know what I'm viewed as. Some people can tell right away. Others can't, and that goes both for those that are GLBT and for those that are straight, as far as I know. *shrug* I've also had one of the hardest times finding a guy... Most times I think I found someone I can really let into my life and who I am, I get so hurt I don't know what to do. -_-
Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
you are right about that: people supporting people. That's what it SHOULD be. but I merely meant to say that it's really hypoctritical for a person to BE GLBT and not support other GLBT.
as for being eble to be identified as gay right away. Iunno, a lot of people suspect me I guess, but I only know a few people who KNEW. And thank god for them. I've said it before but if Pyro didn't practically drag me out of the closet to him I'd still be horribly depressed each night. but now I'm rambling.
Anyway mikey. I'm an awful person to take relationship advice from. But at least you ARE finding guys right? I mean they say it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? don't you have anyone who you can fall back on when you get hurt?
Mikey Lenetia
Smash Champion
Not really, sadly. I wish I had more of someone, but that's more personal issues than other such things. And you're right, I have found people, but they're not people I get to see every day. They're too far away for that. Even to right this moment, I've yet to even be on a single date. ^_^;
I don't really view any kind of sexuality as more than a further definer or a person. I don't like how outstanding people can be shunned just because they like either both genders, the same gender as their own, or otherwise. It's reasons like that that make the coming out process needlessly hurtful and difficult. I'm glad Pyro was able to be there for you, honestly.
I don't really view any kind of sexuality as more than a further definer or a person. I don't like how outstanding people can be shunned just because they like either both genders, the same gender as their own, or otherwise. It's reasons like that that make the coming out process needlessly hurtful and difficult. I'm glad Pyro was able to be there for you, honestly.
Sonic The Hedgedawg
Smash Hero
well then I wish you all the luck sir. and, yes, despite "finding people" a physical relationship has eluded me to this point. probably for the best actually as it would hastily expedite my coming out and such and, if you'd read through the thread, you'd see I have reasons not to... so, yes, pyro was there for me and, whether he knows it or not, has probably been the single greatest positive influence in my life for a good long while.... but he just helped me accept myself... others still don't accept me -_-
Mikey Lenetia
Smash Champion
Then phooey on them. You need good support for yourself, too, after all. Finding people isn't exactly easy for me in person, either. It's getting to the point that I just want to give up on looking until someone just tells me he's interested. 
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