VictoryIsMudkipz
Smash Journeyman
Link to original post: [drupal=5321]VICTORYBLOG #3: Using Your Words[/drupal]
Link to last weeks blog on Toonami: http://www.smashboards.com/showthread.php?t=325847
This is gonna be a relatively short blog in comparision to my others, so let's get into.
Now for the longest that I can remember, I've always had a problem speaking publicly, whether it be on stage, in front of a classroom, through web chats like skype or tinychat, hell even on the phone if I stay on long enough.
Now I know for a fact I don't have a speech impediment, but I stumble on my words, I can't control my hands....etc & I can be not nervous at all, well prepared & everything, but I always fall into that trap & it's agonizing.
Do any of you have this whether it be stage freight or social nervousness.
I just feel like it's something I'm working on, but not much improvement.
I do youtube & am starting to record my voice for videos & find myself doing 10+ takes, because I can't use my words, I use "uhh" almost every sentence, prepared or not.
I just have a hard time with it, I mean I can speak more professionally & that usually will work, but when I'm speaking off the top of my head, regularly around friends & family & crowds, I find it difficult.
Especially crowds because If i see that I'm stumbling I begin to perspire, which is the most noticeable thing to those crowds & my hand movements.
I can go out not in fear, nerves fine, but I just can't help it, & I'm kinda repeating myself here so I'll end it shortly.
Have or are any of you going through this & have suggestions to help fix this, because me & a couple of friends are all facing this issue & are trying to coup with this situation; Sometimes I think it's because I write alot, to briefly explain, I don't talk much in the first place, when I was around 7 or 8, that wasn't the case but that was a decade ago & I've found that I'm a better writer than speaker, & I partially blame it for that like my actual speaking ability can't catch up with my typing/writing skills.
Anyway This is the end to my 3rd Blog, Thanks to everyone who read it, Next Week: CONSOLE WARS!!
Link to last weeks blog on Toonami: http://www.smashboards.com/showthread.php?t=325847
This is gonna be a relatively short blog in comparision to my others, so let's get into.
Now for the longest that I can remember, I've always had a problem speaking publicly, whether it be on stage, in front of a classroom, through web chats like skype or tinychat, hell even on the phone if I stay on long enough.
Now I know for a fact I don't have a speech impediment, but I stumble on my words, I can't control my hands....etc & I can be not nervous at all, well prepared & everything, but I always fall into that trap & it's agonizing.
Do any of you have this whether it be stage freight or social nervousness.
I just feel like it's something I'm working on, but not much improvement.
I do youtube & am starting to record my voice for videos & find myself doing 10+ takes, because I can't use my words, I use "uhh" almost every sentence, prepared or not.
I just have a hard time with it, I mean I can speak more professionally & that usually will work, but when I'm speaking off the top of my head, regularly around friends & family & crowds, I find it difficult.
Especially crowds because If i see that I'm stumbling I begin to perspire, which is the most noticeable thing to those crowds & my hand movements.
I can go out not in fear, nerves fine, but I just can't help it, & I'm kinda repeating myself here so I'll end it shortly.
Have or are any of you going through this & have suggestions to help fix this, because me & a couple of friends are all facing this issue & are trying to coup with this situation; Sometimes I think it's because I write alot, to briefly explain, I don't talk much in the first place, when I was around 7 or 8, that wasn't the case but that was a decade ago & I've found that I'm a better writer than speaker, & I partially blame it for that like my actual speaking ability can't catch up with my typing/writing skills.
Anyway This is the end to my 3rd Blog, Thanks to everyone who read it, Next Week: CONSOLE WARS!!