In 2005 I was a freshman in high school and I met these kids Travis and Derrek. We started hanging out quite a bit and the first time I went to Travis' house, and saw that he had a GC. The first thing I asked was if he had Melee, and he said that was all that they played. I started telling him about how I was amazing as Smash 64, and they both kind of scoffed at me saying there was no way I could beat them. I was a bit taken aback, how could they be so sure of themselves that they could beat me in this party game?
Boy was I wrong. They were far better then I. Granted, their knowledge of the game was very basic compared to what we all know today, they didn't wd, L cancel, etc. They just knew how to space, how to spot dodge proficiently, etc. I was astounded. I wanted to learn. Could this game that I have always yearned to own have a competitive nature to it?
From my point of view, they were amazing.
So I practiced. For the next 2 years I played with them at least two days a week. We started learning about advanced techniques, practicing them often. We felt like gods.
We heard about a tournament that was happening in our local mall, and practiced even harder. I eventually surpassed Derrek,, Travis and I have been very even ever since, learning at generally the same pace. We all went to it, and we all did fairly well, but were completely destroyed by "Haiyoto" (who I think said he was on this board but idr what his name was, his tag at the tournament was "Kirby"
) and his brother who I remember dominating me with Link ._.
Then suddenly, I found myself feeling average, and haiyoto and his brother were the best people i'd ever played.
We kept playing inside our own clique, never really traveling to tournaments. Just kept improving in any way we could. Eventually, we once again reached a conclusion that we were pretty close to the top.
Eventually through a mutual friend, we met Tichinde, a marth player who happened to live around the block from us, and he came to see how good we were. When we met his expectations, he introduced us to ZoSo, and we have all become really solid friends. Kept playing. Suddenly, from my point of view, ZoSo was super top, and I was just average.
Do you see a trend here? It is all about perspective. And one thing I've learned is, it doesn't matter how good you think you are. When you put yourself on a higher horse than you should, start feeling superior, it becomes a lot harder to take advice to heart, and in general isn't a good thing. If you are being called a noob/scrub, it's probably because you are a noob/scrub. Maybe if you ask for advice instead of of claiming you are good when you clearly aren't, you'd be called out less?
At every tournament I go to, I play as many people as humanly possible, and any and every person who can be me solidly I ask for advice, pick their brains. You'd be surprised how many literally game changing revelations I have at almost every tournament I go to. This in itself gives me motivation to improve, because If I can still learn **** that blows my mind, I have a long way to go. I'm getting there, and I plan to be a major threat, but I'm DEFINITELY not there yet, and there is no shame in that.
Now you ask, What is a "good player"? My response is, it's relative. Anyone better than you is a "good player", and you should aspire to get on there level instead of taking their "insults" to heart.
I think being a good player is an art. To me, the most integral facet of a good player is their ability to be malleable; to adapt swiftly and capitalize on context. I don't think there's much else to being a good player than a finely hewned ability to reduce large amounts of information into a generalized projection of possibilities and options. There're two distinct aspects to art though: the vision and the ability. You can visualize an image, but you have to also be able to wield a drawing utensil with enough alacrity to translate the image.
This is so true in so many ways. I've learned a lot of things from people who I feel gameplay wise I am far superior to, but they seem to understand the game in a much, much greater way than I do and give stellar advice. It's pretty incredible.