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Years with a girlfriend will make you insane.
- Thread starter The Official
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Thissssssssssss will sufficeeeeeee.
Lord Chair
Smash Master
loljerseyshore
Darkshadow7827
Smash Lord
Awww that's really sweet. I wish the best to you and your girl, man. Three years is respectable. I've checked out girls in my class only to find out they have a bf for many years. I back off and respect that. I hope other women hitting on you will respect that bond too instead of trying to homewreck. Almost cheating > cheating. It makes me smile to see how you seem like a moral person - not passing that threshold. I know a girl who is the absolute opposite of you - she cheated on her f-buddy ex-bf. She claimed that the cheater only put it in for a second and that it doesn't count as cheating... yea, okay.
Anyway, it's good to read something heartwarming and not really angsty haha. Though I loathe and despise Jersey Shore XD, props to you man. I wish the best to you!
Anyway, it's good to read something heartwarming and not really angsty haha. Though I loathe and despise Jersey Shore XD, props to you man. I wish the best to you!
I'd say leave her. It doesn't mean that the three years you shared weren't special, but if you've seriously considered cheating on your girlfriend, and seriously considered leaving her on multiple occasions, then maybe you're trying to tell yourself something.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that you're less than 30 years old, so this is the time when you should be experimenting and testing the waters. That's not to say you should f*uck everything that moves, but you don't necessarily need to be tied down in an exclusive relationship right now. If you find a good one, then hey, more power to you...but it sounds to me (at least based on what you wrote), that you're staying with this girl more out of respect for what you had in the past.
Either way, don't make any decision for her sake, make it for yours. You can't make good relationship decisions based on whether or not you're right for her. You need to make decisions based on whether or not she's right for you.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that you're less than 30 years old, so this is the time when you should be experimenting and testing the waters. That's not to say you should f*uck everything that moves, but you don't necessarily need to be tied down in an exclusive relationship right now. If you find a good one, then hey, more power to you...but it sounds to me (at least based on what you wrote), that you're staying with this girl more out of respect for what you had in the past.
Either way, don't make any decision for her sake, make it for yours. You can't make good relationship decisions based on whether or not you're right for her. You need to make decisions based on whether or not she's right for you.
DarkLouis331
Smash Lord
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Sounds like this girl has a pretty good guy with her.
Relationships do make you go insane. lol
Relationships do make you go insane. lol
The Official
Smash Rookie
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flaw
Smash Apprentice
rofl!
yeah, do it for her
yeah, do it for her
Omnicron's Baklava Enterprises
Smash Hero
I laughed so hard at the fact you're comparing your real life relationship to the scum of mankind.
Odessa
Smash Cadet
Jersey Shore?
What Omnicron said. They're children trapped in adult bodies. That like partying.
What Omnicron said. They're children trapped in adult bodies. That like partying.
The Official
Smash Rookie
Maybe you havent been in a relationship as long as I have. But after all the "lovey dovey" stuff comes alot of arguing and fighting.
Thats what I see in their relationship, and thats what happens in mine.
Another thing. Hating on people you dont personally know is childish. But you can say whatever you want. All im saying is, I wouldnt judge a person based off of a TV show. If you ask me, thats petty.
Thats what I see in their relationship, and thats what happens in mine.
Another thing. Hating on people you dont personally know is childish. But you can say whatever you want. All im saying is, I wouldnt judge a person based off of a TV show. If you ask me, thats petty.
§witch
Smash Lord
He wasn't saying him and his girlfriend act like the jersey shore couple. He said he saw parallels in their relationships.
Hating jersey shore is the new hating twilight: it doesn't make you edgy, you just look like you care more than the people who enjoy it.
Hating jersey shore is the new hating twilight: it doesn't make you edgy, you just look like you care more than the people who enjoy it.
Odessa
Smash Cadet
There are no parallels. You think those dramatic feuds are what real relationships consist of?
The general patterns, perhaps, but you love her deep down inside. There's a considerable difference.
That's just my perspective, maybe if I'm wrong, somebody could elaborate?
The general patterns, perhaps, but you love her deep down inside. There's a considerable difference.
That's just my perspective, maybe if I'm wrong, somebody could elaborate?
§witch
Smash Lord
No, but I understand that feuds happen. No relationships are perfect.
Odessa
Smash Cadet
Fair enough. I agree.
The Official
Smash Rookie
I've had many dramatic feuds that had my parents get involved, friends, my girlfriends parents, uncles, cousins, her cousins, her sister, my grand parents and probably more people.
Im not sure you've been in a "real relationship" if you havent been through atleast one really dramatic fight. It happens all the time with my relationship. But now a days it just seems like its more fun then it is serious. 3 years is a long time.
Odessa
Smash Cadet
I've been in numerous relationships. That's irrelevant.
Of course there are fights. That's normal. Jersey Shore is completely fake, the relationships are not legitimate.
There should be no comparisons or parallels, really. At the same time, if a couple never fights, something doesn't add up.
Ryu Shimazu
Smash Master
Lawl. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years. We fight a lot, but we love each other. Most of our fights are dumb though. Like we'll play Monster Hunter Tri and we'll blame each other for stuff, lolz.
condemned_soul
Smash Champion
relationships
- has its ups and downs
- communication is key to a healthy relationship
- even though you told your girl about you past mistakes, sometimes its not good to tell the truth (most people who are in/been in a shaky relationship should understand)
- if you want to stay with a girl, you may have to give up being friends with other females dude because if you keep getting close to messing up, one time you wont be able to stop
I may be wrong about you but I live Detroit where anyone can get cheated on so I refuse to fall in love (girls are easy here so its no that hard for me to keep my heart locked away)
- has its ups and downs
- communication is key to a healthy relationship
- even though you told your girl about you past mistakes, sometimes its not good to tell the truth (most people who are in/been in a shaky relationship should understand)
- if you want to stay with a girl, you may have to give up being friends with other females dude because if you keep getting close to messing up, one time you wont be able to stop
I may be wrong about you but I live Detroit where anyone can get cheated on so I refuse to fall in love (girls are easy here so its no that hard for me to keep my heart locked away)
AKARed
Smash Apprentice
Maybe you should just see if the girls are ok with just being friends?